"I want to try Japanese adult entertainment, but I'm scared because I don't know the rules." "How do I make a reservation?" "I'm worried about getting ripped off." The anxieties that first-time foreign visitors to Japan's adult entertainment scene have are understandable. But rest assured. As long as you follow the correct procedures, Japanese adult entertainment is a superb experience that anyone can enjoy safely.
This article condenses the entire process, from choosing a genre to parting ways smartly, into "5 easy steps" for you to have the best night. Once you read this guide, you'll have nothing to fear.
Step 1: Decide How to Play (Choosing a Genre)
The first step is to clarify "what kind of experience you want" and choose a genre of establishment that suits it. The main options are as follows:
- Outcall Escort Service (Delivery Health): This is the choice if privacy is your top priority. A woman comes to your hotel or home, so you can relax without worrying about being seen. It's the most popular style for tourists.
- In-call Brothel (Health): Choose this if you want to drop by casually. You go to the establishment, choose from the women on standby, and receive services in a private room. The pricing is relatively cheap and the system is easy to understand.
- Soapland: For advanced users who want to experience a unique part of Japanese culture. You receive an intensely intimate, full-body service with lots of foam and bubbles from a woman in a private room with a luxurious bath.
→Check out the detailed differences between each genre here
Step 2: Find a Place (Research)
Once you've decided on the genre you want to try, the next step is to look for specific places on online information sites. Street touts are 100% connected to malicious businesses, so absolutely ignore them.
How to find a safe place:
- Look at major information sites: Using sites like Tokyo Escort Service Guide, which organize information for foreigners, is the safest and most efficient method.
- Choose "Foreigner Welcome" places: Establishments marked as "Foreigner Welcome" on sites tend to be understanding of language barriers and cultural differences, leading to fewer troubles.
- Check the official website: Verify that the pricing system is clear, the photos of the girls are realistic, and that the business information is properly listed.
→Perfect your method for finding a safe place here
Step 3: Make a Reservation (Contact)
Once you've found a place and a girl you like, it's time to make a reservation. It can be a tense moment, but it's easy if you know the key points.
- How to book: While phone calls are standard, more and more places now allow booking via website forms or messaging apps like WhatsApp and LINE. If you're not confident in your Japanese, we recommend web reservations, which allow you to communicate in writing at your own pace.
- What to tell them: Accurately convey "① the desired date and time," "② the course length," "③ the name of the girl," and "④ the name of the hotel and room number for dispatch."
- The magic words: Simply adding "I am a foreign tourist. Is it okay?" when booking can prepare the establishment and make their response smoother.
Step 4: The Big Day (Preparation and Meeting)
Once your reservation is complete, all you have to do is wait. To have the best time, be sure to prepare smartly.
- Keep clean: Taking a shower before meeting the girl is basic, universal manners.
- Prepare the fee: Payment is typically in cash. It's very smooth if you have the exact amount confirmed at the time of booking ready, without needing change.
- Meeting and final confirmation: When the girl arrives at your room, welcome her with a smile. Then, before the service begins, make a final confirmation of the price by asking, "Total cost is ○○ yen, right?" This simple step can prevent any later "he-said, she-said" issues.
Step 5: Enjoy Your Time (The Play and Farewell)
It's time for the main event. How you act here will greatly affect your satisfaction.
- Enjoy the communication: The play is important, of course, but enjoy the conversation with the girl as well. Respecting them as professionals and expressing your gratitude creates a more intimate atmosphere.
- Follow the rules: Violence, verbal abuse, secret filming, and forcing real intercourse (in the case of outcall services) are absolutely forbidden. Always behave like a gentleman.
- A smart farewell: Fun times fly by. When the time is up, express your gratitude and see the girl off with a smile. If you can make her think, "I want to see him again," you're a true pro.
By following these five steps, your night in Tokyo is sure to be a safe and unforgettable experience. Now, summon your courage and open the door to an unknown world!
